Dialogue

"The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention…. A loving silence often has far more power to heal and to connect than the most well-intentioned words."
                                                                                                     --Rachel Naomi Remen
"An enemy is one whose story we have not heard."
                                                                                                     --Gene Knudson-Hoffman

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"I was in the presence of such incredible and diverse women, all of whom shared their dreams and their nightmares. I watched, and participated, as 39 women joined forces to aid one woman through a difficult or beautiful revelation. I listened as women told secrets they had never shared before because there was so much trust and understanding hovering in the room. I shared my own experiences with them as well. We laughed and we cried. "
                                                                                                   --Regan, The Woolgatherer

 

YouTube/ Dalai Lama
-- Dalai Lama Center

No More Enemies

The Dialogue Venture

Magaly's Blog

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Peace and Collaborative
Development Network

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Institute for Multi-Track
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Videos, audios, telecourses...

Neha Sangwan - Healing thru Better Communication

Audio from Hay House World Summit 2013 060813

John Backman - Dialogue: A habit of the heart

Audio from New Dimensions Radio w/Justine Toms

Larry Yang in Conversation with Raphael Cushnir - Parts 1&2


This interview with Larry Yang is from the online audio series, "Teaching What We Need To Learn," in which a wide array of leaders in personal growth and spirituality share their own innermost challenges. The series is hosted by author and teacher Raphael Cushnir

KPFA - Is the recall necessary? Part 1 - Part 2 020112

Empathy Documentary Project: Insights into Empathy - Miki Kashtan
The Fearless Heart - Miki Kashtan's blog
Conflict Hotline - BayNVC's YouTube Channel
Bay NVG - Bay Area Nonviolent Communication

Mary Gordon: Exploring the Roots of Empathy

Jean Shinoda Bolen on the role of women in the peace process

Eric Whitacre: A virtual choir 2,000 voices strong

William Ury -- The walk from "no" to "yes"

Peace Talks Radio / Good Radio Shows Introduction Video

Stewart Levine - Removing the Emotional Hooks of Conflict

Audio from New Dimensions Radio w/Justine Toms

 

 

New Dimensions Internet Radio - Over 1000 hours of thoughtful conversation

Peace Talks Radio

 

Articles

Larry Yang - Directing the Mind Towards Practices in Diversity

Karin Marcus: Soulful Listening

15 Tips for a Respectful Dialogue

This is Your Brain on Metaphors

Common Listening Errors
and Poor Quality Listening

Story as Entry to Relationship
A 1-1/2 hour classroom communication experience of quality Dialogue


"Sometimes being a friend means mastering the art of timing. There is a time for silence.
A time to let go and allow people to hurl themselves into their own destiny. And a time to prepare to pick up the pieces when it’s all over."

                                                                                                      --Octavia Butler

 

 

"Generally speaking, the first nonviolent act is not fasting, but dialogue. The other side, the adversary, is recognized as a person, he is taken out of his anonymity and exists in his own right... To engage someone in dialogue is to recognize him, have faith in him. At every step in the nonviolent struggle, at every level we try tirelessly to establish a dialogue, or reestablish it if it has broken down."
                                                                                                                           
  --Hildegard Goos-Mayr

 

 

 

 

 

"Listen, or your tongue will keep you deaf."
                                   --Native American proverb

 

 

World Cafe

Conversation Cafe

National Day of
Listening

Intl Listening Assn

Sacred Listening

Focusing - Six Steps

Emerge America

SheSource

Teen Talking Circles

EPARG

National Coalition for
Dialogue & Deliberation

Peaceful World
Conversations

Generative Dialogue

 

 

Four Years. Go. video  --  Connect
Two weekly conference calls creating a space for global dialogue

Path of the Peacemaker
A 7-week Course with renowned peacemaker James O'Dea
Oct 13 - Dec 1, 2010
Audios of the free Intro seminar and Q&A

Ken Cloke (Mediators beyond Borders) at Regis University

Selective Attention Test

Jean Shinoda Bolen - Into the Circle

Audio from New Dimensions Radio

Winifred Gallagher - Mastering Attention to Transform Experience

Sedonia Cahill and Charles Garfield - The Power of Circles

Audio from New Dimensions Radio

Skype-facilitated Singapore School Dialogue - 55 min video
Engaging the Other, facilitator's guide for similar Dialogue experience

If You Really Knew Me > Full Episode
If You Really Knew Me -- premieres July 20th 11:00 pm on MTV
Challenge Day

Vicki Robin, Juanita Brown, Leif Utne --
Circles, Conversation and Community

Audios from New Dimensions Radio

David Bohm -- Essential Reality -- on dialogue

RSA Animate -- The Empathic Civilisation

The Compassionate Listening Project
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The Compassionate Listening Project

Dialogue at Washington High

Crossing Lines in Fresno   

THE PEACEMAKERS and their pursuit of understanding

 

 

Facilitation Resources

Creating an Atmosphere where Everyone Participates

Deepak Chopra:  Five Questions to Focus Conscious Evolutionaries

How do you have a Let's Talk America Conversation?

Excerpts from At last, a movement that would have us listen to and learn from each other

David Bohm:  Dialogue - A Proposal

The Co-Intelligence Institute - Dialogue

DuVersity - Dialogue

Conflicts as Yoga

Exploring transactional and transformational conversations

How to Make a Decision Without Making a Decision

Electronic Discussion on Group Facilitation

 

 

 


Joan Jett listens to Will at Farm Sanctuary

"How do I listen to others?
As if everyone were my Master speaking to me
His cherished last words."

-- Hafiz (1320-1389, Persia), Sufi mystic and poet

 

 

Five questions to focus conscious evolutionaries

Deepak Chopra
5/15/10

What kind of world do I want to live in, and what kind of world do I want for my children and their children?

What is my role or contribution in bringing about this world?

If I am part of an organization and I am the leader of the organization, what kind of team do I want to have and what is my relationship with this team?

Where do I belong in this larger network of conversation that we are having right now?

What do I feel is the need of the moment, and what do I see as the solution of the moment?

 

 

 

 

"We just keep talking until there's nothing left but the obvious truth."
   --Oren Lyons, faithkeeper of the Turtle Clan of the
              Onondaga Iroquois, said of his tribal council tradition

 

 

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Excerpts from At last, a movement that would have us listen to and learn from each other

 

"On Friday night, we broke into three groups (of eight participants and one facilitator each) to discuss such questions as, What did you understand about being an American when you were 12 years old? How have you experienced political differences and how did that affect you personally?

It was impossible to participate in that exercise without coming to see (and feel and know) that every participant, whatever their politics, was a complex and caring human being."

 

"But the end result of that conversation is we all realized -- I mean, we all really “got” -- how misleading and even infantilizing the old political spectrum had become."

 

"Before leaving, we all signed our names to a document titled “We the People.” Many of us signed with flourishes, as if we were signing something akin to the Declaration of Independence. Here are the key passages:

       “We respect our differences and recognize America needs every one of our viewpoints, ideas, and passions -- even those we don’t agree with -- to keep our democracy vital and alive;

       “We recognize that meeting here and across our land for dialogues across differences builds trust, understanding, respect, and empowerment -- the conditions necessary for freedom and democracy to live in us and around us;

       “And, therefore, each still grounded in our own considered views (conscience and convictions), we commit ourselves and our communities of interest to foster dialogue across the many divides in America, in large and small groups, to build trust, insight, and inspired action toward the more perfect union we all desire” "

 

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"If we could read the secret history of our enemies, we should find in each man's life sorrow and suffering enough to disarm all hostility."
                                                                                    -- Henry Wadsworth Longfellow (1807-1882)

 

Selective Attention Test

 

 

 

 

 

 

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